Saturday, May 24, 2008

Mrs Young

It is one week now that I am a married woman. Totally off the market and untouchable to those who have always dreamt of and fantasized to be with me...sorry dudes! Daniel had won my heart a long time ago and now he has it all to himself. Wow...that was a bit cocky.

7 days now....that I am Mrs. Young. Its quite different. I dont know how i will break the habit of signing my name as a dulay. Its something i wil definitely have to be more conscious about. my work people are making a great effort in breaking me out of it, cause everything around me is YOUNG...they are writing my name as Young, they have changed my name plate to Young and are bugging me to change all my email correspondence to Young. I think I will do most the name changing when I get around to the Social Security Office, DMV and the like. Once I have the name change on Paper and its legal, then I will start changing everything else, but until then I'll be Dulay on paper and Mrs Young to everything else.

How does it feel to be a married woman? everyone seems to be asking me that question. Well...to be quite honest...i dont feel any different. i am who i am and i will always be the same person daniel has met and fallen in love with. i feel the same. its just that now, the bond between us is official for the others. its more permanent so to speak. we have the acknowledgment that we are a married couple, ready to have kids and start a life together. but to dan and me, its always been that...from the beginning stages of our relationship...we've always known we were going to build a life together and have children in the future. nothing new to us, except for we're no longer in a relationship per se, but now a marriage. We're husband and wife. that still sounds funny to me in a way...its not something i thought i'd ever claim on anyone again...and here i am prouder than ever to be daniel's wife and he my husband....

life begins....and will continue as Mrs Young.....